WHY AM I SINGLE?

I hope that my title has caught your attention.

My prior question was "Why teenagers in  this era is so obsessed about dating? "

I don't know if you guys have Askfm or Tumblr or Twitter or whatsoever. It's always about retweeting on love quotes on how much someone has hurt the other someone and reblogging on relationship quotes. What made me write about this post was because most of days answering questions from Askfm is about relationship. It's about who am I with or will I ever date again, why is it that I am not dating someone now and the most common question is WHY AM I NOT DATING MY BESTFRIEND TAUFIQ. CAUSE IM JUST NOT LAHHHHHHHHH. KENAPA YOU ORG SANGAT THE KEPOHCHIIIII? 

Why does it concerned you so much on who am I dating or why ? I simply just don't understand. Now I am not writing this out of anger or frustration but is there nothing else you want to genuinely know about someone? ( I mean if you could go to askfm and be anonymous and on top of that ask stupid questions might as well you ask relevant things) For instant, you can always ask me how my day was or maybe what I like to read and how do I deal with people in college that are less intelligent. LOL. OR JUST DON'T ASK ANYTHING AT ALL I DO NOT CARE. 

I am not against people who are dating now, if they are truly happy then why not? It is non of my concerned. It's the exact same thing that I am happy, that I am not sad about being a single pringle and there's nothing to be concerned about. Of course there are times when I admire people who has their other half to support them and you know give bloody forehead kisses in front of me to rub it in my face ( SUE ANN IM TALKING ABOUT YOU) but I do not go despo and go cray cray concerning this. 

What I am trying to point out here is that, there's nothing wrong on being single. There are so much more in life than just being in a relationship. There are so much more in me that I need to discover before settling down and there are so many places that I want to travel alone. I have priorities that I need to achieve before a certain age. Don't you think that focusing on yourself is also considered as self love? I mean if you can't love yourself or at least learn to, how are you gonna love someone? 

Most teenagers nowadays want to talk about love, but truth is you don't know what love is. It is not a bed of roses, it is not just kisses on the forehead and missing someone. It's not all that. I don't even know what it is. All I know about love is that it takes a lot of hard work and sacrifices and patient but even with all that, there is no guarantee that your relationship might work out. Why do you think that people who've been dating for 10 years decides to break up? 

On top of that, going on dates and all other so-called "special" occasions you've been celebrating , buying gifts and have dinner dates are all your parents money. Even if your other significant is working now and he or she might pay anything with their own money, that is only because they are still living under their parent's roof. They don't have to pay electricity or pay their own car loans or any other things that are major. But I am not saying there aren't people like these, to those I really salute. 

Keep in mind that all these are the reason why I am single and all these posts are only based on what I think.

So to all the single ladies out there, you are one hot ass mofo and you don't need a man to buy you a diamond ring, girl you diamond yourself! And to all those who are happy being in a relationship, I wish that you guys will stay sweet. 

Till then, much love. xx