Saturday, 8 November 2014

BEING STRONG DOESNT MEAN WE'RE NUMB.



I don't quite know about you, but i consider myself as a strong person. Well not physically but mentally. 
I'm not here to talk about me, but to talk about people like me. 
Sometimes people may admire by thinking "Wow that guy / girl is such a strong person and i wish i could handle things easily like them" kinda thing. But what you don't know is, we're struggling at times too.


I have friends that think that being strong is fun, that whatever that has been thrown at our faces, we are able to handle it smoothly. Tho frankly at sometimes it DOES  makes me feel like I'm some kinda superhuman ,we're not all that superior. I also have friends that say things like " AHHH strong people like you no problem la" whenever you choose to tell them what you're facing. 
To be frank, it frustrates me at times because most people think that strong minded people can handle everything and they don't take what we're facing seriously.

I am a 19 year old who've been thought a lot. Keep in mind, I've no intention to brag because some people have been through worst. What I'm trying to say is that, sometimes all it takes is that when people tell you about their problem or whenever they are having a serious talk with you, please do take them seriously whether that person is a strong individual or a weak link, because they trust you enough with what they're about to tell you.
Trust me, you'll make their day.

I'm not trying to say that being a strong person is a bad thing  what I'm trying to point out is that, we have feelings too, there are going to  be times we feel sad and angry too and that we breakdown and we are in need support too and that we're only human. 

If you know a friend that is a strong person, be there and support them. You'll be someone they'll never forget. 

PS: I want to thank Sue Ann for being supportive all the time and has love me unconditionally even though I've been annoying most of the times. And Taufiq who constantly believe in me that I can do anything that I want to do. 

Till then, much love. :) 

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