Love , Rights, Goals

I've been wanting to post this up for sometime now and I thought of sharing a thought that I have. 

As guilty as it is, I think that I am considered a social media freak. I would go on instagram and click on the explore button and scroll uncontrollably as if it was an involuntary action. During bedtime I am the typical Tumblr reblogging and the Twitter retweeting girl.

There you go I've confessed my lifeless life to all of you! 

It seems like there are a lot of "deserving posts" or "relationship goals" sharing around the net today. Such as

The internet as we know play such a great influence in young generations mind. Truth is,these post only show you the "good times" and frankly these pictures or articles hikes up the expectations of young ladies that their boyfriend should be perfect because they are much more "deserving" just because they are girls.

Truth is, just as real man should stay faithful to you, he should be able to put you in your place when necessary. When I say put you in place meaning being able to be truthful or being comfortable to tell you when you are wrong. Relationship goals are not always about holding hands or falling asleep on someone's lap or eating ice cream together. True relationship goals, are the initiative to work things out during the bad times , it is about being able to be truthful to your partner and yourself. True goals are about compromising each other's flaws and to love them unconditionally.

As a woman, I think that both men and women deserve to be loved equally. There is no such thing as "It is healthy if he/she loves me more". Also, before thinking you deserve all these wonderful things in a relationship , you have to ask yourself "what makes you so deserving?" In a relationship, we should not habit ourselves into thinking I deserve this and I deserve that but more to what can I do to improve OUR relationship and what can I do for my significant half today?

I think it is about time we learn how to humble ourselves because if we focus so much on how much we deserve, the soul will not ever be satisfied.

 Its not about finding the "right one" but more of being the right one. We always tell ourselves "I want my partner to be this and that" when are you going to ask yourself "I want to be a great person for my future spouse"?

In a relationship, just as deserving as you think you are with all your human rights, human rights is also about having the utmost deserving rights to make mistakes because without them we will never learn. Both men and women have the deserving rights to be heard and to be loved. 

We have the freedom today to receive information by just clicking the search bar. We are able to collect advice from people around us. What we should do next is to really filter because by reading and obtaining too much information , at the end of the day this is your life and you should know what is able to influence you. Let that influence be a good one. 

Help me share this post if you think its inspiring, it would mean a lot to me.

Till then, much love.