Date A Man This Valentine.

I've come across an article about what women want in a relationship, which you can read it here.

I am not sure of who this author is but she has wrote what I couldn't express. 

I am sure all girl's want "Prince Charming" to buy them roses and things and to swipe them off their feet but I believe as women, we want someone who understand that we are not asking for much, that it does not take much to sweep us off our feet. Women prefer things that cannot be bought by money, (cause honestly we can do that by ourselves) like appreciative messages and other little things. As for me, I love eye contact. Because through eye contact you'll know if that person respects you as they talk, in a way it shows appreciation by taking your thoughts into consideration and trying to understand where you're coming from. 

Of course little surprising dates are fun, but doing that would not mean anything if little things are not put into important considerations. 

Throughout my 20 years of life, I won't deny I've been in relationships many times. I've come to realized that the difference between boys and men is that boys expect you to do the same when they do something for you, but men would just do it because they appreciate you because of how you've make them feel. Men would rather do things that puts a smile on your face and be contented with it. 

My uncle has been married to my aunt for many years, has two wonderful kids and still never fails to show her the attention she needed as a woman. My aunt once told me that she would love my uncle as long as she'll live and that she would serve him as a husband until the day she die. " I am blessed , everyday I would have morning kisses and goodnight cuddles. I do not know how is it that I deserve all this, but I guess I must have did something right to marry such a wonderful husband, so many years together and I still feel how I felt many years ago when we just started dating" 

My uncle would surprise her with balloons at the back of his car and leave notes before he goes to work. I've asked him once during my visit in KL, what is it that he loves my aunt so much. He simply reply " Despite that she is smart, her smile completes me, it makes me feel I've did something good and it would bring me through the day. Show her love and she would love more, I guess that's how a real woman is. I'm glad I've listened to my mum. I hadnt find the reason why I shouldnt love her. Im still falling in love" 

I remember I was in Kl for a week and everyday I would notice how they would look at each other. 

There will be little fights here and there and at the end they would still work things out. Support each other through their bad times and celebrate the good ones. 

That made me realized that love exist , it may not be perfect but it is everywhere. 

And one day I hope that I would be blessed enough to be with someone, who not only makes me feel like a woman but would give me his time and look at me to tell me how blessed he is to have me. 

Till then, much love.